With a new perspective comes a new sense of awareness. It is important to seek advice from avenues and people that don’t just love sex, but who are dedicated to the cause and effect of sex, who are concerned with more than just feeling good. By widening your perspective on sex and allowing it to live outside of what you’re true needs are, and having open communication and understanding the differences in our needs and desires, you are allowing yourself to practice love and tolerance within a culture that often propagates shame around sex.
]]>Sex toys can encourage you to try new positions and make it more likely for you to have multiple orgasms. A way to start using sex toys can be during foreplay by allowing your partner to see what it is that you like, and how you get yourself off. Once sex toys become apart of your sex life, you can start bringing your fantasies to life, feeding your curiosity, and learning exactly how to get out of your head and into your body putting to bed any negative stigmas you might have heard surrounding the use of sex toys.
]]>Most of the time the problem might not even be the act of sex itself that’s causing a disconnect. With the guidance of a sex therapist you can start to understand just how connected the mind and body are, and how pleasure is ultimately, a give and take of control and perspective.
Sex therapy isn’t just about the act of sex itself. It is a form of talk therapy that’s aims to help individuals and partners address psychological and personal factors that could be negatively impacting their sex lives. Talking about sex with your partner can sometimes feel awkward and uncomfortable, but is necessary when trying to understanding your bodies and how they can be utilized to begin a life filled with pleasurable sex.
]]>This year think about your goals for reaching a sustainable level of self-care. You know, new heights for looking out for #1...YOU! Of course, you deserve it and really you are the perfect person to decide exactly what you need. Only YOU know best!!!
So, do something bold, something fresh, something NEW...something just for YOU. Check out some of out hottest items for the upcoming holiday of love HERE.
And....don't forget! Love. Play. Repeat.
Zindzhi ❤
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